The other day a friend asked me, “How do you make time to work on your marriage?”
Every couple struggles with this.
You have a job, hobbies, kids (maybe), and all of them are vying for your time.
You make time for whatever matters most.
Let’s be honest. You might think you don’t have time to date your spouse or work on the latest issue in your marriage.
But you do.
I told my friend, “Whatever matters most to you, you will make time for it.”
If you don’t make time for your marriage, it doesn’t matter to you.
I know that sounds harsh.
But you have time for fantasy sports, hiking, cards with the guys, your kids’ sports. Are those bad? No, but they matter less than your marriage.
If working on your marriage matters, you will make time at 6am or 9pm.
Anyone who tells you they don’t have time for their marriage is lying.
They don’t care enough about it to make the time for it.