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One theme has continued to emerge repeatedly in our series on 1 John, and that is, we can know where we stand with God. 

In chapter 5, he says 4 times in 3 verses: “we know, we know, we know…” (1 John 5:18 – 20). The primary purpose of 1 John is to help us live in the reality that we can know where we stand with God, we can be sure that we are in Christ, and we can be assured that we are safe and loved by the Father. 

What John does throughout the letter is not only show us what that life looks like as it relates to our relationship with God, ourselves, and others, but he also writes about what battles we will face in experiencing and living in that life and love. 

At the very end of the letter, he says: Guard yourselves from idols. 

One translation says: Dear children, keep away from anything that might take God’s place in your hearts.

At first glance, this is an unusual way to conclude the letter. Idols? After all the talk of light and dark, eternity, love, etc., he chooses idols to end with. And end abruptly. 

Yet, the idols of our hearts are sneaky and keep us from the life God has for us. 

What is an idol? Tim Keller has been helpful to me in this area. He says, “Idols are often good things that we make great. An idol is anything we look to for what only Jesus can give us.”

Idols are often good things that we make great. An idol is anything we look to for what only Jesus can give us. -Tim Keller
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I’m not sure where I first heard this list of questions, but they were questions to help you discern the idols of your heart (I shared more detail about these in my sermon on this passage): 

9 questions to help you discern your idols of the heart.
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• What do you worry about?
• What do you use to comfort yourself when life gets tough or things don’t go your way?
• What, if you lost it, would make you think life wasn’t worth living?
• What do you daydream about?
• What makes you feel the most self-worth? 
• Early on, what would you like people to know about you? What do you lead with in conversations?
• What prayer, unanswered, would seriously make you consider walking away from God?
• What do you really want and expect out of life?
• What is your hope for the future? What will complete you?

9 questions to figure out what is holding you back in your relationship with Jesus.
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One aspect that is often overlooked is the origin of these idols. 

According to Adam Young in his book, Make Sense of Your Story: Why Engaging Your Past with Kindness Changes Everything, says, “When your heart is wounded – when something breaks inside of you – you begin living in a way that promises to relieve the wound and assures you that you will never be hurt in that particular way again. And this way of living enslaves you. You become captive to it.” He goes on to discuss how there is a connection between our hurt, our heart being broken, and the idols we pursue. 

Our idols are found in the soil of our pain. -Adam Young
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Let me share something from my life that might help you apply this. 

When I meet someone, I want them to know as quickly as possible that I am working on my doctorate. Why? I want them to be aware of my qualifications. I want them to know that I can do certain things. In fact, when I am in rooms with other pastors, I often struggle to believe that I belong there, that I don’t have what it takes. 

This struggle dates back to middle school and high school because I wasn’t a great student, and I had a guidance counselor who told me he didn’t think I was college material. At the time, he wasn’t wrong, but that stung, and that scar still runs deep. I have often struggled to believe that I am enough in Jesus and that I don’t need letters behind my name to be “someone” in his eyes. 

My guess is, you can find your idol in the soil of your pain. 

The power of your early childhood on who you become as an adult.
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You might look to money for security because you grew up with so little. Maybe you want someone to approve of you or love you because the people who were supposed to love you didn’t. Perhaps you have prayed and prayed for something that hasn’t happened, and that thing has become your salvation.

We don’t always see it. 

That’s why idols are so sneaky. 

That’s why John says to “guard ourselves.” To pick up our shields and swords and guard ourselves. To be alert (1 Peter 5:8). 

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We often talk about idols of the heart and the gospel at Revolution. I will get questions about how you determine what your idols are, what is it that your heart longs for, how do you discern them and learn how the gospel transforms them.

Recently, I came across some great diagnostic questions in the Porterbrook curriculum that we will be using for our Surge School to discern what the idols of your heart are:

• If you are angry, ask, ― Is there something too important to me? Something I am telling myself I have to have? Is that why I am angry — because I am being blocked from having something I think is a necessity when it is not?
• If you are fearful or badly worried, ask, ―Is there something too important to me? Something I am telling myself I have to have? Is that why I am so scared — because something is being threatened which I think is a necessity when it is not?
• If you are despondent or hating yourself, ask, Is there something too important to me? Something I have to have? Is that why I am so down — because I have lost or failed at something which I think is a necessity, but which is not

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