Katie and I write a lot about marriage and relationships here, and we get asked about it a lot. Right now, we are preaching a series together at our church called #RelationshipGoals where we are covering some of the most important things couples need to know but often don’t or don’t pay attention to.

Since tomorrow is Valentine’s Day, we thought we’d share our ten most-read posts on marriage.

1. 11 Ways to Know You’ve Settled for a Mediocre Marriage
2. 18 Things Every Husband Should Know About His Wife
3. When You and Your Spouse aren’t on the Same Page
4. Why Your Spouse Doesn’t Listen to You
5. 10 Questions You Should Ask Your Spouse Regularly (If you want to have some good conversations on Valentine’s Day, ask these questions)
6.  10 Ways to Know if You’re Putting Your Kids Before Your Spouse
7. When You Manipulate Your Husband, You Lose Him
8. Do You Build Up or Tear Down Your Spouse?
9. The One Thing Destroying Your Marriage That You Don’t Realize
10. 6 Things I Wish I Knew About Marriage When I Got Married