Today is Valentine’s Day. Honestly, for Katie and me, Valentine’s Day is essentially like any other day. We don’t go out to eat today because it is crazy expensive. But we also strive to have a weekly date night and check-in time with each other, which doesn’t happen on Monday.

Today is a day when we focus on love when some of us long for love that has been lost or not found yet.

We also started a new series at our church yesterday called The Better Half, where we will spend five weeks looking at how to be the better half in our most important relationships.

Over the years, Katie and I have taught in various settings on marriage and relationships; we have written countless posts about them and read many books and articles on marriage. All to make our relationship the best it can be.

So, I thought I’d share our top 10 posts we’ve ever written on marriage:

1. 11 Ways to Know You’ve Settled for a Mediocre Marriage
2. Lies We Believe About Marriage
3. 18 Things Every Husband Should Know About His Wife
4. 10 Questions You Should Ask Your Spouse Regularly (this is one of my favorite ones)
5. The One Thing Destroying Your Marriage That You Don’t Realize
6. 10 Ways to Know if You’re Putting Your Kids Before Your Spouse
7. 7 Reasons You Aren’t Communicating with your Spouse
8. When You and Your Spouse aren’t on the Same Page
9. Why Your Spouse Doesn’t Listen to You
10. Quarantine Date Night