Over the years, many things have been said in sermons and classes at church about giving and generosity. I’ve heard pastors berate people from the stage, guilt people into giving, or have a narrow view of generosity, which is seen as only about money instead of the broader context that Scripture gives.
When scripture talks about generosity, it includes money, but it also includes our time and our talents.
Throughout the New Testament, Jesus and others continually tell us that wherever we spend our time, our talents and treasure matter to us. We can say with our lips that we want to honor God and that God is a priority in our lives, but if we don’t back that up with how we spend our lives, we are fooling ourselves.
In 1 Timothy 6, Paul wants us to ask ourselves if we are trusting in God or if we are trusting in the uncertainty of wealth.
So, what does it look like to honor and trust God with our finances? To be generous in a way that honors God. The writers of the New Testament give us 4 words to guide our generosity:
Worshipful. Generosity is an act of worship.
Every time we are generous, we are worshiping. Every time we aren’t generous, we are worshiping.
Being generous with our time, talents, and treasure shows that we believe everything belongs to God and worship him. As Paul tells us in 1 Timothy 6, we place our hope in God.
But when we are stingy and hold our time, talents, and treasures tightly, we worship something else. That might be security, more prestige, our kid’s sports calendars, etc.
But Paul tells us every action and decision is an act of worship, either towards God or towards the uncertainty of wealth.
When we are generous, we are reminding ourselves who owns everything. We are stewarding what God owns and has entrusted to us.
When we share our finances, time, and talents with those around us, we worship and give glory to God, who gave us these things to use.
Proportional. The word tithe means “tenth,” where giving 10% back to God comes from. If you aren’t giving back to God and want to move forward in generosity, that is a great place to start but not where to end.
What is proportional for one person isn’t for another.
Each year, Katie and I pray through upping our percentage of what we give back to God.
Not only because generosity is the first step to contentment.
But have you ever met someone generous and miserable? I haven’t. They’re always happy.
The same happens with time and talent. Each person has different amounts of time they can give in each stage of life. Your proportion of time is different in your teens, your 30’s, compared to your 60’s.
Sacrificial. Giving away $100 might be a lot for one person but not for another.
Giving should stretch us. It should change us and our priorities.
In many ways, it should make us go ouch. That is what sacrifice means. It hurts a little bit. It pushes us and challenges us.
That is what generosity should do.
Andy Stanley said, “Giving 10% makes many people uncomfortable, extremely uncomfortable. But then, so is a colonoscopy, and those save countless lives.”
Being uncomfortable isn’t bad.
Discomfort is sometimes the thing we need to grow in our faith.
Intentional. This means you planned it. It didn’t just happen.
In 2 Corinthians 9, when Paul talks about generosity, he says that each person should decide in his heart.
This means you decide ahead of time.
I encourage everyone in our church to give using automated giving on the giving envelope. It means you decide ahead of time.
Here’s the question for us: Is your giving worshipful, proportional, sacrificial, and intentional?